- A bridesmaid has ranted about her friend’s attitude
- She took to Reddit to lament about her pal and the bride’s ‘unorganized’ nature
- The unknown woman branded the bride-to-be a ‘bad friend’
A bridesmaid has ranted about her friend’s – who is also a bride-to-be – ‘passive aggressive’ attitude as she revealed she wants to ditch her as a pal.
The anonymous woman took to Reddit to lament about her ‘unorganized’ friend who has been ignoring her calls and messages.
She explained that the bride has asked her to help with the details of the wedding but refuses to communicate with her when it comes down to it.
In a thread titled, ‘Wedding Shaming,’ the unnamed bridesmaid branded the soon-to-be wife a ‘bad friend and bride.’
The post was titled: ‘Unorganized, passive aggressive bride-to-be.’
She wrote: ‘I’m an upcoming bride myself so I understand how stressful things can be and I’m used to last minute organizing.
‘One of my friends is extremely disorganized but on top of that she has been ignoring my messages and giving me passive aggressive attitude.
‘I’m feeling so disheartened and not eager to help. I’m starting to really re-evaluate my friendship with her and it pisses me off how there is zero communication from her side.’
The unnamed woman revealed then fired off a list of examples of things that her friend did that left her annoyed.
She explained that the bride-to-be expected her to organize her bachelorette party with just ‘two months notice’, but refused to give her the names of the guests.
The woman added: ‘She will never tell you any details or ask for any help BUT when I ask there are always tasks
‘I had to ask her what I can help with, she gave me a long list including a speech. I ask how do I need to do a speech (as she has not asked me), she left me on seen. Called her after and didn’t pick up or messaged back
‘Asked on bridal group chat should we catch up before the ceremonies, left me on seen.’
At the end of the post, she said that the soon-to-be wife was a ‘bad friend’ and a ‘bad wife.’
People then flooded the comments section and ran to the defense of the bridesmaid while slamming the bride.
One person said: ‘Honestly, why put up with the headaches and drama when she is treating you so terribly? This is not the behavior of someone who values your friendship. What do you have to lose if you just get out now?’
Another user wrote: ‘Just drop the rope. Unless she contacts you and specifically asks, assume there’s nothing that needs doing. If she asks for something and doesn’t give you enough info, tell her it isn’t enough info and if she doesn’t follow up with more, just leave it. It’s not your job to sort it out for her. It’s her job. If the wedding doesn’t end up the way she wants, it’s her problem.’
Someone else added: ‘Send her a note, I have tried with you but you do not communicate which is stressing me out as I’m trying to do right by you. I’m done and I’m out. Find another bridesmaid. I wish you luck and happiness.’
‘Send her a note, I have tried with you but you do not communicate which is stressing me out as I’m trying to do right by you. I’m done and I’m out. Find another bridesmaid. I wish you luck and happiness,’ commented another person.
One user said: ‘I don’t understand why you’re still putting so much effort in this. Stop helping her against her own will. ‘
Someone else added: ‘Just back out. Why stick around for this nonsense?’
‘She doesn’t sound like a friend,’ wrote another user.
One user added: ‘Stop caring more than she does. As someone else said, drop the rope.’